Kern Pastors Character Conference

July 6-7, 2010
Kern Family Foundation - Green Lake, WI

Dallas offers a transformative vision for pastoral leadership rooted in spiritual formation and Christlike character. Across four sessions, he challenges pastors to move beyond performance and appearances, instead embracing the deep, inner formation of the soul as the central work of ministry. Dallas begins by exploring the divine calling and spiritual resources available to pastors, grounding ministry in an interactive relationship with the Trinity.

The series then unfolds with profound insight into the nature of character, personality, and transformation. Dallas addresses the often-ignored complexities of human nature and how genuine change happens—not through willpower or strategy, but through a Spirit-led reordering of the self. He concludes by urging churches to realign their structures and activities around the goal of Christlike character, making spiritual formation the organizing principle of congregational life.

The Kern Family Foundation was established in 1998 with a goal of empowering the rising generation of Americans to build flourishing lives anchored in strong character. Because the founders of the foundation believe that healthy local churches led by capable, committed pastors impact character formation in unique and positive ways, they designed a ministry program to equip pastors to lead healthy churches. This was the first of several conferences intended to foster the formation of Christian character in congregations served by Kern Pastors in the USA. Forty young Kern pastors and their spouses attended. In preparation, the participants were given a pre-conference reading assignment of 2 books by Henri Nouwen:  Creative Ministry, and The Way of the Heart, and Dallas’s book The Spirit of the Disciplines.   Fred Oaks, one of the conference organizers, shared a sweet summary of the conference in his 2013 memorial tribute to Dallas.

The conference was held at Green Lake Conference Center in Green Lake, WI. See the schedule below for the complete titles Dallas gave each session (we've left out the subtitles on our list here).

Conference Teaching Schedule

Tuesday, 7:00 pm
7:00 – The Calling and Resources of the Pastor – The Gospel and Character Development. Law and Character Development.  An Overview of the Sermon on the Mount in the Light of Character.  – Dallas Willard

Wednesday, 9:15 am
The Complexity, Components, and Order of Character and Personality – Making Sense of the ‘First Commandment.’ (Mark 12:28-31) – Dallas Willard

Wednesday, 2:00 pm
Case Study: “Character Development in the Local Church” – Bill Lenz

Wednesday, 2:45 pm
Realism about Character Transformation – ‘Spiritual Formation’ and the ‘VIM’ Structure: Vision/Intention/Means. – Dallas Willard

Wednesday, 7:00 pm
Church Activities Organized around Character Development – Really!
VIM Applied to What We Do ‘At Church.’  The ‘Great Commission’ and the ‘Mark’ of the Disciple.  Practical Steps.  Community Impact. – Dallas Willard 

Resources

1: The Calling and Resources of the Pastor

Dallas invites pastors and ministry leaders to recover a vision of spiritual formation rooted in the knowledge of God and the reality of the Kingdom. He challenges common notions of success, salvation, and discipleship, urging us to rethink the gospel we preach and the lives we live. Addressing the nature of character, the meaning of obedience, and the essential questions that shape human life, Dallas re-centers pastoral ministry around apprenticeship to Jesus.

2: The Complexity, Components and Order of Character and Personality

Dallas sheds light on the architecture of the human self and what it means to be truly formed in Christ. He challenges our common assumptions about knowledge, character, and spiritual growth, offering a transformative vision for personal development that integrates will, mind, body, and relationships. 

3: Realism about Character Transformation

Dallas explores the gritty truth of how genuine transformation of character occurs—not as a theoretical ideal, but as a practical, lived reality. He challenges modern assumptions about human nature, willpower, and the role of grace. Dallas lays out a powerful vision of the human personality and how the parts of the self must be reordered under God's reign for real change to happen. 

4: Church Activities Organized around Character Development - Really!

Dallas sets forth a vision for how the local church can be structured to intentionally support the development of Christlike character in its members. He redirects our focus from attendance and programming to spiritual formation as the central task. Drawing deeply from Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount, Dallas paints a picture of congregations that foster transformation through worship, small groups, and intentional apprenticeship to Christ. 

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The Calling and Resources of the Pastor

The overhead transparencies Dallas used in this session are collected in a document you can download here.

Highlights:

  • The Root of the Problem is Theology: Dallas opens the talk by asserting that the core issues in spiritual formation aren’t about practice but about our understanding of salvation, grace, and God’s intentions for humanity. Churches often fail to answer the most basic questions about why we’re here and what God is doing.
  • Character is Acquired Essence: He defines character as “acquired essence”—who we are shaped by choices, experiences, and relationships. True Christian character leads to “easy, routine obedience,” not legalistic striving but a natural outflow of transformation.
  • Success is Between You and God: Dallas reminds pastors that their success is not determined by outward metrics or others’ opinions but by their relationship with God. Even in difficult ministry circumstances, we are called to faithfulness under Christ’s authority over all things.
  • The Four Questions Every Pastor Must Answer: He identifies four existential questions every human answers—What is real? Who is well off? Who is a good person? How does one become a good person?—and insists that pastors are responsible for helping people answer them in light of Christ and His kingdom.
  • The Gospel We Preach Shapes the People We Produce: Dallas critiques several common “gospels” that don’t lead to transformation. He emphasizes that the gospel Jesus preached—life in the kingdom through apprenticeship—actually forms character.
  • You Are an Unceasing Spiritual Being: In closing, Dallas offers a profound picture of our identity: each person is an “unceasing spiritual being with an eternal destiny in God’s great universe.” Living in the kingdom means no longer fearing death and learning to want what God wants.

 

(This was an evening meeting after a long travel day for Dallas, and you’ll hear it in his voice. But don’t worry – by morning, he was good as new.)

The Complexity, Components and Order of Character and Personality

The overhead transparencies Dallas used in this session are collected in a document you can download here.

Highlights:

  • Reclaiming Knowledge in Ministry: Dallas emphasizes that the true battle today is over authority, and authority is tied to knowledge. Ministers are wrongly viewed as having only “faith” rather than actual knowledge, which undermines their relevance in the public sphere.
  • The Impact of Dualism: He critiques the long-standing dualism between body and spirit, which has fragmented our understanding of human nature. Dallas urges a holistic view where the spiritual and physical are integrated in the life of a disciple.
  • The Structure of the Self: Dallas walks through the layered complexity of the human self—will, mind, body, and social context. He explains how the order and harmony of these components shape our character and how disintegration causes dysfunction.
  • Character Is Not Personality: He makes a clear distinction between character and personality. While personality is often tied to surface traits, character is rooted in the moral fabric and integrity of who we are, shaped over time by choices and habits.
  • Role of Habit in Spiritual Formation: Dallas underscores the importance of habit in shaping the person we become. Character, he says, is built not by sporadic actions but by repeated choices that align with God’s will.
  • Becoming the Kind of Person Who Can Do the Right Thing: Near the end of the talk, Dallas explains that spiritual formation is about becoming the kind of person who naturally does what is right. This involves transforming the inner life so that goodness flows from the heart without constant deliberation.

Realism about Character Transformation

The overhead transparencies Dallas used in this session are collected in a document you can download here.

Highlights:

  • Christians in the Plague: When plagues struck the Greco-Roman world, most people fled—but the Christians stayed. Dallas highlights this as a striking example of how a transformed vision of life leads to courageous love.
  • The Will’s True Purpose: Dallas insists that the primary function of the human will is not merely choosing, but trusting God. He explains that this trust was severed in the Fall—what he wryly calls not a fall, but a “jump.”
  • When You Blow It: He challenges the idea that mistakes are mere lapses by saying, “When you blow it, that’s who you are.” Character is revealed in moments of pressure, and these patterns are deeply ingrained in the body.
  • The Problem with Just Trying Harder: Dallas critiques the notion that character change happens through willpower alone. True transformation involves reconfiguring the sources of action within us, not just gritting our teeth.
  • The Central Role of the Mind: The mind—what we habitually think about—plays a central role in our spiritual formation. Dallas stresses that continual interaction with God’s truth is what renews our thinking and shapes our character.
  • Grace as Power, Not Just Pardon: He redefines grace as God acting in our lives to accomplish what we cannot do on our own. Grace is not opposed to effort; it’s opposed to earning—and it is the fuel of transformation.

Church Activities Organized around Character Development - Really!

The overhead transparencies Dallas used in this session are collected in a document you can download here.

Highlights:

  • The Church’s Central Question: Dallas opens with the question: Can you build character through the local church? He challenges listeners to return to the New Testament vision where the church forms people into those who live from the Kingdom of God.
  • Reframing the Sermon on the Mount: Rather than viewing the Sermon on the Mount as a set of laws, Dallas presents it as a portrait of people who are alive in the Kingdom. This shift helps us see Jesus’ words as invitations to transformation, not burdensome rules.
  • The Real Goal of Church Activities: Dallas asserts that every church activity should be evaluated by whether it contributes to character formation. Programs, worship, and teaching are not ends in themselves but means to develop people who live in the goodness of God.
  • Worship as Formation: He emphasizes that worship, when rightly understood, forms character by shaping our vision of God and reality. True worship enables us to see the world rightly and live from a posture of trust and joy.
  • The Power of Small Groups: Dallas advocates for small groups not just as social gatherings but as places of genuine apprenticeship to Jesus. They should be designed to help people actually learn to do the things Jesus said.
  • Leadership and Vision: Dallas underscores the importance of pastoral leadership that keeps character development central. He calls on leaders to cast a vision for transformation and create a culture where spiritual formation is the norm, not the exception.