Living With-God Today

August 3-8, 2010
Northfield Methodist Church - Benoni, South Africa

In 2010, during his last visit to South Africa, Dallas delivered a powerful series of teachings at the church pastored by his close friend Trevor Hudson. Speaking to a broad audience, Dallas sought to make the reality of God’s Kingdom accessible to all—helping people understand that eternal life is not just about the future but something we are invited to step into now. Through these talks, he offers a compelling vision of life with God that goes beyond religious obligation, calling listeners into a deeply personal, interactive relationship with Him.
Across these sessions, Dallas explores foundational themes of his work: why God is not always obvious and must be sought, how discipleship is a process of transformation rather than mere rule-following, the role of spiritual disciplines in shaping a Christlike life, and the practical implications of loving God and others. With clarity, wisdom, and warmth, he challenges us to move beyond cultural Christianity into a way of living that fully embraces the presence, power, and goodness of God. Whether you are encountering Dallas’s teaching for the first time or are well-versed in his work, this series provides both theological depth and practical guidance for a life rooted in the reality of God's Kingdom.

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1: Living “With-God” - Eternal Living Now

Dallas explores the reality that eternal life isn’t just something that begins after death—it starts now. Through deep reflection on Scripture, he unveils how living in interactive relationship with God transforms our daily existence, making our lives part of His eternal purpose. Dallas invites us to see the Kingdom of God as present and available, offering a way of life filled with joy, purpose, and peace. 

2: The Light of the Knowledge of the Glory of God in the Face of Jesus Christ

Dallas sheds light on the foundational role of knowledge in the Christian life. He challenges the common assumption that faith alone is the basis of spiritual life, emphasizing that true discipleship is rooted in knowing God and His Kingdom as an accessible reality. He illustrates how knowledge enables faith, strengthens commitment, and aligns our lives with the eternal purposes of God. 

3: Why God Is Not Obvious and Must Be Sought

Why is God not obvious? Why must He be sought? Dallas explores the deep wisdom behind God's hiddenness and the necessity of seeking Him. He explains how our search for God is not in vain but is instead a crucial part of our transformation. This journey of seeking shapes our character, deepens our knowledge, and prepares us for the life God intends for us—both now and for eternity. 

4: Growth in Goodness and Power through Transformation of the Essential Aspects of the Person

Dallas focuses on the profound transformation of the human person through God's grace, moving beyond mere willpower into a holistic renewal of mind, body, and soul. He illuminates the process of aligning with God’s life, integrating love and power into our daily existence. Dallas challenges us to acknowledge God in everything, embrace our spiritual nature, and live in a way that manifests His presence to the world. 

5: The Torn Human Condition and the Bondage of Evil - Why Things Go So Badly in Human Life and Actions

Why do things go so badly in human life, despite good intentions? In this penetrating talk, Dallas deals with the torn human condition and the bondage of evil, revealing how unchecked desire and pride drive conflict and destruction. He examines the deep roots of moral failure, the false promises of the world, and the only true path to wholeness: walking in the Spirit as a disciple of Jesus. 

6: The Radical Surgery and All-Consuming Blessing of Discipleship

Dallas unpacks the essence of discipleship as both a radical transformation and an all-encompassing blessing. He challenges common misconceptions about grace, righteousness, and what it truly means to follow Jesus. Dallas reminds us that discipleship is not an optional extra for Christians—it is the natural outflow of living in God’s kingdom. 

7: How to Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

Dallas investigates what it truly means to love your neighbor as yourself—not merely as an ethical rule, but as a reality made possible through living in the Kingdom of God. He unpacks the significance of discipleship, how our vision of God and ourselves shapes our ability to love, and how Jesus calls us to a higher standard: to love as He has loved us. 

8: The Secret of the Easy Yoke - Training When Not On the Spot – Spiritual Disciplines

Dallas looks at the secret behind Jesus' "easy yoke" and how spiritual disciplines shape a life that naturally flows with God's grace. He challenges the common notion that discipleship is an add-on to Christianity rather than its very core. Dallas explains how disciplines like solitude, silence, fasting, and scripture memorization are not acts of righteousness but wise means to transformation.

9: What to Do “In Church” - Eternal Living Fostered by Church Activities

What is the church really for? Dallas challenges common assumptions about church activities, urging us to see the church as a “school of eternal living.” He illuminates what it means to truly follow Christ, critiques the distractions that often consume modern Christianity, and provides a vision for church life that fosters deep transformation. 

10: Spending a Day with Jesus

What does it mean to live each day truly "with" Jesus? Dallas invites us to consciously cultivate the presence of Christ throughout our daily lives. From the moment we wake to the time we rest, he provides tangible ways to keep our minds fixed on Jesus, watch for His work around us, and experience the peace and joy that flow from abiding in Him. 

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Living “With-God” - Eternal Living Now

Highlights:

  • Eternal Life Starts Now: Dallas explains that eternal life is not something we wait for after death—it begins now as we live interactively with God. By trusting and aligning our lives with His, we step into the kind of life Jesus describes in John 17:3—knowing God personally and participating in His kingdom today.
  • The Nature of Life: Using everyday examples, Dallas illustrates the different kinds of life, from plants to animals to humans, showing that human life is uniquely designed for relationship with God. Without this connection, our lives shrivel, but when we abide in Him, we experience the fullness of life as it was intended.
  • The Invitation to Kingdom Living: Each person has been uniquely placed in history with a purpose, and Jesus invites us to bring our own "kingdom" into God's kingdom. Dallas emphasizes that we are called to live out our faith in our specific time, place, and relationships, making the world around us more like heaven.
  • Joy and Strength in God's Presence: True strength is found in the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, and peace—rather than in worldly power or control. Dallas shares examples, including Mother Teresa and Bishop Tutu, demonstrating that those who live with a vision of God's kingdom are often the most joyful and resilient people.
  • Trusting God Over Fear and Anxiety: One of the central messages of Jesus and Paul is to "be anxious for nothing" because God is always with us. Dallas reminds us that when we take our lives into the life of God, fear, frustration, and disappointment lose their power over us, freeing us to live with confidence and peace.
  • The Divine Conspiracy—Overcoming Evil with Good: God’s project throughout history is to create a loving community of people who reflect His goodness. Dallas calls us to recognize that this includes us personally—we are invited to participate in God's eternal plan, not just as spectators but as active contributors to His kingdom, right where we are.

The Light of the Knowledge of the Glory of God in the Face of Jesus Christ

Highlights:

  • You Are Part of God’s Eternal Plan: God’s desire is for your life to be integrated into His own life—right now. Despite the pressures of the world that try to grind you down, eternity is now in session, and your life is meant to yield an eternal treasure in God’s Kingdom.
  • Knowledge, Not Just Faith: Dallas makes a bold statement: The Bible is a book of knowledge, not just faith. Many assume that Christianity is about faith alone, but faith must be grounded in knowledge—a deep, experiential knowing of God’s reality.
  • The Foundation of True Faith: Faith is not blind; it is rooted in what we know to be true. Hebrews 11 describes the great figures of faith who acted with confidence because they knew God. True belief integrates us with reality rather than leaving us in uncertainty.
  • The Kingdom of God is Now Available: Jesus’ message was not just about the future but about the present availability of God’s Kingdom. God’s presence is not something to hope for later—it is here now, and the key to entering it is doing what Jesus says.
  • Desire and the Trap of Happiness: The world tells us to follow our desires, but Jesus teaches that real life comes when we are freed from being ruled by them. Happiness is not something to chase—it is a byproduct of living in alignment with God’s reality.
  • Witnessing is About Sharing Knowledge: True evangelism is not just convincing people to commit but giving them knowledge of God and His reality. Many churches have focused on getting commitments without ensuring people actually understand what they are committing to—leading to weak discipleship.

Why God Is Not Obvious and Must Be Sought

Highlights:

  • The Search for Knowledge and God: Just as knowledge in any field—whether mathematics or life wisdom—requires effort, so does knowing God. He does not force Himself upon us but invites us to seek Him like hidden treasure (Proverbs 2:3-5), shaping us in the process.
  • Why Doesn’t God Just Prove Himself? Dallas humorously considers what kind of dramatic event would convince skeptics of God’s existence. He points out that even if the heavens split open and a booming voice declared His reality, people would still rationalize it away—true knowledge of God requires inner transformation.
  • The Hiddenness of God and Human Freedom: God’s hiddenness is not an oversight but a necessity for human freedom. If He were completely obvious, we wouldn’t have the genuine option of seeking Him or rejecting Him—His very bigness demands that He give us space to choose.
  • The Kingdom of Priests—Our Destiny in God’s Plan: God’s intention has always been to form a people who live in communion with Him, a "kingdom of priests" (Exodus 19:6). This calling is not just for ancient Israel but for all who choose to live under God’s reign and represent Him in the world.
  • Training for Reigning—Why This Life Matters: This life is preparation for the eternal reign of those who trust and walk with God. We are not simply waiting for heaven; we are in training now, being shaped into people whom God can entrust with real authority in His everlasting kingdom.
  • The Joy of Seeking and Finding God: While God remains hidden enough to allow us space to seek Him, He is not so hidden that He cannot be found. The paradox of seeking Him is that, in the end, we discover that He was actually seeking us all along.

Growth in Goodness and Power through Transformation of the Essential Aspects of the Person

Highlights:

  • The Power of Acknowledging God: Transformation begins with simply acknowledging God in all we do. As we recognize His presence and act with Him, our lives take on an eternal quality, aligning us with the very life of God.
  • Glowing with God's Power: Just as electricity causes a light to glow, the power of God working through a community of believers brings a visible radiance. When we live together in unity and love, we become a testimony to the world of Christ’s reality.
  • The Will as the Center of Transformation: True spiritual growth is not about forcing change through sheer willpower or passively waiting for grace to transform us. Instead, it involves intelligent action—aligning our will with God's, engaging our thoughts, emotions, and actions in His work.
  • Overcoming the Mind of the Flesh: The difference between walking in the Spirit and walking in the flesh lies in what we focus on—visible circumstances or the unseen reality of God's presence. Learning to trust God instead of relying on our own understanding is a crucial step in spiritual renewal.
  • Social Relations as a Reflection of Love: Our relationships reveal the state of our spiritual life. Instead of falling into patterns of attack and withdrawal, Dallas calls us to engage others in love, breaking free from self-protection and learning to see and serve people as God does.
  • Restoring the Soul through God’s Word and Presence: A fractured soul leads to inner conflict and exhaustion, but God’s Word and the presence of the Good Shepherd bring restoration. Whether through Scripture, rest, or trust in God's care, the healing of the soul is essential for living in harmony with Him.

The Torn Human Condition and the Bondage of Evil - Why Things Go So Badly in Human Life and Actions

Highlights:

  • The Reality of the Torn Human Condition: Dallas begins by acknowledging a painful truth—human life is filled with broken relationships, conflicts, and suffering, even among those who start with love and good intentions. He points to Scripture, showing how our struggles arise from desires that war against the soul, leading people away from the life of God.
  • The World, the Flesh, and the Devil: Expounding on 1 John 2:16-17, Dallas explains that human society is structured around the "lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life." He illustrates how cultures, economies, and social hierarchies revolve around these desires, creating a system that distorts human life and leads to oppression and division.
  • The Hardness of Heart and Spiritual Blindness: Dallas highlights how hardened hearts prevent people from recognizing truth, using the disciples' failure to understand the miracle of the loaves as an example. He explains that when truth cannot penetrate our assumptions, we remain blind to God’s work and are trapped in futile attempts to make life work on our own terms.
  • The Progression of Sensuality and Addiction: Discussing Ephesians 4:19, Dallas warns that as people become callous to goodness, they give themselves over to sensuality, seeking more extreme experiences to feel alive. He explains that unchecked desire leads to moral corruption, demonstrating how addiction—whether to pleasure, power, or possessions—enslaves the soul.
  • Walking in the Spirit as the Only Escape: Dallas emphasizes that the way out of bondage is not through sheer willpower but through walking in the Spirit. Referencing Galatians 5:16, he teaches that a life oriented toward God’s presence and goodness frees us from the tyranny of desire, allowing us to experience love, joy, and peace.
  • The Easy Yoke of Discipleship: Contrary to the belief that a holy life is difficult, Dallas asserts that following Jesus is the easiest way to live. He explains that Jesus' invitation to "take my yoke upon you" is an offer to live in partnership with Him, where true rest is found in surrendering to God's wisdom rather than being driven by the world's empty pursuits.

The Radical Surgery and All-Consuming Blessing of Discipleship

Highlights:  

  • Discipleship as a Journey Home: Dallas begins by defining lostness—not as a final destination, but as not knowing where we are. The answer, he explains, is not a map but a guide—Jesus himself—who leads us home through discipleship, making the presence of God our true dwelling place.
  • Transformation, Not Imitation: Many believe following Christ means copying his actions, but Dallas insists that true obedience comes from inner transformation. He explains that we don’t strive to keep the law; instead, we become the kind of people who naturally fulfill it as we align our entire being with God.
  • Entering the Kingdom Now, Not Later: Dallas challenges the common view that the kingdom of heaven is only about the afterlife. Instead, he asserts that Jesus invites us to enter the kingdom now, in our daily lives, where righteousness is not about appearances but about the deep renewal of the heart.
  • The Great Commission as a Call to Character: Pointing to the early church’s explosive growth, Dallas explains that discipleship is not about increasing church numbers but about cultivating Christlike character. He highlights how early Christians transformed their world by embodying love, care, and faithfulness—even in the face of suffering.
  • The Power of Grace in Action: Dispelling the notion that grace is passive, Dallas describes it as God actively working within us to will and to do His good pleasure. He warns against both legalism and antinomianism, urging believers to embrace grace as the power that enables real transformation.
  • Discipleship in Everyday Life: Dallas redefines discipleship as something that happens in the workplace, at home, and in every sphere of life. Whether as teachers, farmers, or businesspeople, we are called to live as apprentices of Jesus, learning to do all things in the kingdom of God, for the good of the world.

How to Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

Highlights:

  • Knowing God is an Interactive Relationship: Jesus defines eternal life as knowing the only true God and Jesus Christ whom He sent (John 17:3). Dallas emphasizes that knowing God is not about acquiring information but living in an ongoing, interactive relationship with Him.
  • The Weight of Our Neighbor’s Glory: Drawing from C.S. Lewis’s The Weight of Glory, Dallas highlights that each person we encounter is an immortal being, destined for either incredible glory or devastating loss. This perspective should profoundly shape the way we treat others, recognizing their eternal significance.
  • Faith Grows by Acting on It: Faith is not something we wait to feel but something we cultivate through action. Dallas encourages listeners to start with small steps—like extending a warm word or a kind gesture—to experience how faith grows through obedience.
  • Discipleship Requires Radical Reorientation: We do not begin discipleship at zero but from a formation already shaped by the world. True discipleship involves unlearning the ways we’ve been formed away from God and reorienting our lives toward Christ, which is often a wrenching but necessary process.
  • The Cost of Non-Discipleship: While much is made of the "cost of discipleship," Dallas points out that we rarely consider the cost of not following Jesus. The alternative is a life dominated by self-seeking, broken relationships, and a world devoid of the richness of the Kingdom.
  • Discipleship is for the World, Not Just the Church: Loving our neighbor as Jesus loved us extends beyond church walls. Discipleship is meant to bring the presence of the Kingdom into every sphere—work, family, and society—so that rivers of living water flow from us into a groaning creation that longs for redemption.

The Secret of the Easy Yoke - Training When Not On the Spot – Spiritual Disciplines

Highlights:

  • The Missing Element in Christianity: Many churches do not naturally lead people into discipleship, and as a result, genuine spiritual growth is often absent. Dallas points out that the central message of Jesus—life in the Kingdom of God, available now—must be reclaimed as the foundation of our faith.
  • The Power of Thinking Rightly About God: Dallas explains that repentance (metanoia) means “thinking about your thinking” and realigning our minds with the reality of God's presence. Most human troubles, he argues, come from wrong ideas about God, and transformation begins with renewing our minds in truth.
  • Loving Our Neighbor Starts with Compassion: True neighbor love is impossible without first experiencing God's love and allowing it to transform us. Dallas highlights that hurry is one of the greatest obstacles to compassion—when we slow down and live in God’s presence, we gain the capacity to truly love others.
  • The Secret of Training in Spiritual Disciplines: Spiritual growth does not happen by mere effort or trying harder; it requires training through wise, intentional practices. Dallas describes disciplines like solitude, silence, fasting, and scripture memorization as means of grace that shape our character and align us with God's power.
  • The Transforming Power of Scripture Memorization: Dallas testifies that memorizing scripture is one of the most powerful disciplines for healing the soul and shaping the mind toward God's reality. When we take the Word of God into our bodies and minds, it restores us and enables us to live in harmony with His will.
  • Learning to Obey God with Ease: The goal of discipleship is to reach a place where obedience to God becomes easy and routine—not because of sheer willpower, but because we have been inwardly transformed. Dallas emphasizes that when we practice spiritual disciplines in grace, we discover that God is always acting with us, producing results beyond our natural ability.

What to Do “In Church” - Eternal Living Fostered by Church Activities

Highlights:

  • Be Ready, Not Distracted: Discussions about prophecy and end-times speculation often serve more as entertainment than discipleship. Dallas reminds us that Jesus’ command is simple: "Be ready." Instead of being consumed by debates, our focus should be on living in a way that prepares us to joyfully welcome Christ at any time.
  • Hurry and Worry Go Together: Many Christians live in a constant state of hurry, believing they must do more than they can handle. Dallas reassures us that God never gives us more than we are meant to do and calls us to embrace stillness, solitude, and trust in His provision rather than falling into a hurried, anxious life.
  • Learning to Pray Without Ceasing: Replacing worry with prayer transforms our daily lives. Dallas shares Frank Laubach’s practice of “The Game with Minutes,” a simple discipline of frequently turning our thoughts toward God, making every task an opportunity to invite His presence into our work and relationships.
  • The Church as a School of Eternal Living: Instead of simply being a place for worship services, Dallas envisions the church as a training ground for eternal life. He warns against announcing drastic changes too abruptly but encourages churches to gradually shift toward discipleship-centered practices that help people live in the Kingdom of God now.
  • Love as the Mark of the Church: Jesus did not say, "They will know you are my disciples by your exciting worship services." Instead, He said, "They will know you by your love for one another." Dallas emphasizes that church activities should be measured by how well they cultivate love, not just by how engaging or impressive they seem.
  • Teaching People to Do What Jesus Commanded: Dallas challenges the modern church’s tendency to focus on forgiveness without transformation. He stresses that churches should have intentional, structured ways to teach people how to actually live out Jesus’ commands—starting with something as practical as learning to bless those who curse us.

Spending a Day with Jesus

Highlights:

  • Understanding 'With' in Our Walk with Jesus: Dallas emphasizes that the word "with" is key to our relationship with Christ. It is not just about thinking of Him but recognizing His presence, seeing His actions around us, and allowing Him to work through us in daily life.
  • The Biblical Day Begins at Night: In a shift from our usual perspective, Dallas points out that the biblical day begins in the evening. By surrendering our concerns to God before sleep, we align ourselves with His rhythm, allowing Him to work in us even while we rest.
  • Waking with Awareness of God’s Presence: Dallas encourages beginning each morning with a simple but powerful affirmation: "God is here." This conscious start to the day, accompanied by gratitude and prayer, sets the tone for walking in step with Christ throughout all activities.
  • Inviting Jesus into Every Moment: Rather than segmenting our spiritual life from our daily tasks, Dallas urges us to invite Jesus into every situation—whether a work meeting, a conversation, or a challenge. When we do, His peace and wisdom become tangible realities in our interactions.
  • The Power of Willing Peace and Joy to Others: Dallas reveals that we can actively "will" God’s peace and joy into the lives of those around us. Whether in a tense meeting or a casual encounter, we can silently pray for Christ’s presence to fill the atmosphere and transform hearts.
  • Ending the Day with Gratitude: The day should close with a practice of thankfulness—reflecting on God’s faithfulness, acknowledging His presence, and resting in His mercy. Dallas reassures that even in our failures, God's love and forgiveness invite us to begin anew each day with Him.